So I’m sure that we have all been witnessing the growing “must-have” mothers in Lebanon are running to get – “the helper”.
I totally support the fact that your children and family deserve to live in a clean house, tidy and that doesn’t leave you so exhausted that you have no time to spend quality time and energy on your loved ones and of course yourself.
But to be honest, I think the exact definition or job description is no longer being understood by many.
What does the term “Helper” mean: a person that you hire to “help” you, to be your secondary pair of hands around the house.
The word I want to stress on throughout this post is SECONDARY.
I am truly fed up of going to playgrounds and finding NO MOTHERS playing with their children and just leaving them there with the helpers.
You may argue that YOUR helper is the sweetest, kindest, most caring woman on this planet and takes care of your children as if they were her own. But let’s be honest they aren’t her own.
When her contract finishes she will leave.
I have witnessed first hand how some helpers talk to the children, neglect and ignore the child as soon as the mother leaves – and become completely different people once the mother re-appears.
Every Supermom needs help.
But NEVER FORGET you are the PRIMARY MATRIARCH in your child’s and family’s lives.
SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR CHILD. BUILD & CREATE MEMORIES.
YOU MADE THE CONSCIOUS DECISION TO BECOME A MOTHER.
THERE IS NO RETURN POLICY IF YOU NOW FEEL OVERWHELMED AND NOT BEING ABLE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST.
Dear Supermoms, Children grow up very quickly. Enjoy every single moment. Be the one that your child runs to when he needs love, affection, and ATTENTION because your helper will only be in their lives temporarily… YOU ARE THEIR MOTHER FOR ETERNITY. Acknowledge this gift and position.
GOOD LUCK SUPER MOMS!
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